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What the R. Kelly Story Tells Us about Enablers

Abusers rely on a web of deniers. Is there one in your organization?

Peggy Cunningham and Minette Drumwright 28 Sep 2021The Conversation

Peggy Cunningham is a business professor at Dalhousie University in Nova Scotia. Minette Drumwright is an associate professor of advertising and public relations at the University of Texas at Austin. This article originally appeared in the Conversation here.

R&B singer R. Kelly was found guilty of racketeering and sex trafficking charges Monday, having been exposed as the ringleader of a decades-long scheme to recruit girls, boys and women to have sex with.

During the six-week long trial, jurors heard harrowing testimony from a succession of survivors of Kelly’s abuse. Witnesses also revealed how members of the 54-year-old’s entourage assisted, enabled and helped cover up the singer’s crimes.

As professors who have researched unethical behavior for many years, we found the patterns revealed in Kelly’s trial to be classic examples of how unethical, even criminal, conduct can persist in organizations for long periods of time, often as an open secret and often supported by others.

Our studies of unethical and illegal behaviour — from fraud to sexual harassment — have looked at sectors including business, journalism, health care, sports and government. We found that despite policies and laws designed to prevent it, such behaviour is rife in many organizations.

While there is a tendency to focus on the “bad apple” — the perpetrator and their despicable behaviour — our research demonstrates the need to look beyond the individual to understand how and why unethical behaviour thrives and persists.

Repeatedly, we have found that perpetrators such as Kelly do not act alone. They tend to have active enablers, groups we call “networks of complicity” who support the abuse in various ways.

They also have passive enablers, groups we label “networks of complacency” who turn a blind eye to what is happening.

In all workplaces, people are embedded in networks of social relationships that they value and want to maintain. However, we found that if someone falls prey to the charms of a predator — usually powerful men, such as Kelly — they gradually lose their perspective. Their desire to be “part of the team” comes to dominate other considerations, including norms of ethical behaviour.

These enablers often do not intend to do bad things, but bad behaviour is contagious, and biases can blind them to their own increasingly bad conduct. They are also subject to situational and organizational pressures, like conforming with others or trying to please powerful figures.

In Kelly’s trial, the prosecution produced 45 witnesses who provided evidence of managers, assistants, bodyguards and other members of Kelly’s entourage who not only recruited and delivered underage girls and boys for Kelly to have sex with, but also covered for him and fixed problems for the singer when they occurred.

We have heard stories such as Kelly’s time and time again: A charismatic leader uses their star power and rewards, but also fear and intimidation, to draw individuals from inside and outside their organization into a loyal network of supporters. The supporters do their leader’s bidding, run interference and deflect criticism.

The perpetrators control and shape information and build myths to enhance their expertise and greatness. Members of the network of complicity fall victim to such storytelling and myth-building.

Our research, like the evidence in Kelly’s trial, demonstrates that bad behaviour metastasizes and spreads through the network of complicity. The prosecution provided evidence that members of Kelly’s network also behaved illegally and unethically.

For example, a former tour manager, Demetrius Smith, testified that he bribed an Illinois state employee to get a fake ID for underage R&B singer Aaliyah, so that Kelly could marry her.

Typically, the bad behaviour of the perpetrator and the network creates a toxic organizational culture in which abuse and unethical acts become the norm and everyone in the organization suffers, not just victims.

Our research also shows that typically many people beyond the network of complicity know about the bad behaviour but act as bystanders, unwilling to report abuse or take action to stop it. They form a network of complacency that, through its passivity, also enables the perpetrator’s bad behavior to continue.

The prosecution in Kelly’s case provided evidence that Kelly was enabled by a silent network.

The question that many people will have is how could people in Kelly’s networks have allowed themselves to go along with such blatantly unethical, and now we know criminal, activities for so long?

Our research shows that network members often suffer from "moral myopia," a condition in which ethical issues do not come clearly into focus at the time of the abuse, and “moral muteness,” in which people do not raise or talk about ethical issues even among other network members.

They can also be governed by self-interest bias. It was certainly in the self-interest of those surrounding Kelly to build his brand, contribute to his success, earn his favour and keep their jobs.

This self-interest bias can blur moral vision.

There is also a framing bias, in which events are portrayed and presented in a misleading light. In closing arguments, the defence lawyer framed Kelly’s behaviour as that of “a playboy” and that he was only engaged in “kinky sex,” which is “not a crime.”

If Kelly’s inner circle framed the star’s behaviour in this way, it would seem less horrific and abusive to them and could be rationalized or dismissed.

If persistent unethical behaviour is to be stopped, convicting perpetrators alone is not enough. Our research suggests that networks of complicity also need to be addressed and the behaviour of enablers exposed and where appropriate, punished.

Organizational leaders can learn to identify not just perpetrators but also their networks of complicity. Meanwhile, network members themselves need to be shown that it is in their self-interest to expose perpetrators, like Kelly, and lift the veil themselves on the great harm abusive behaviour causes.The Conversation  [Tyee]

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