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A Canadian-Style Apology to America

Sorry I sold you short. Obama has changed my views... a bit.

By Vanessa Richmond, 12 Nov 2008, TheTyee.ca

Obama Supporter

Credit where it's due.

As a good Canadian, I have always found you, America, to represent everything to be wary of. You've always seemed overly big, bright and loud. You produced Donald Trump, George Bush and Britney Spears: all truly, madly, deeply, anti-Canuck. With some few exceptions, you come across as self-interested, self-absorbed and self-obsessed. I do know many sensitive, intelligent, moderate, well-informed Americans: my boyfriend is a dual American-Canadian citizen, as is one of my best friends, and my godmother is a full-blooded American. Still, while generalizations seem so, well, American, I'd like to humbly, Canadianly, submit a few in search of your approval or rebuke.

You, America, champion individualism, whatever the costs. We Canadians seem to see the costs, and instead prize humility, the common good, the group, at least on the surface, though, of course, we fail frequently and miserably in carrying those values out. In politics, you vote for the individual, we vote for the party. On the night of your vice-presidential debate, watched by electrified millions, with seemingly everything at stake, Palin and Biden played a cagey game of contrasting images and styles, our five prospective leaders gathered for a round table discussion and debated for a very long while the nuances of various carbon emissions policies.

You have celebrity rock stars, actors, founding fathers and presidents. Our hearts still beat for Terry Fox, a media-shy, self-deprecating, 22-year-old who ran across the country as part of the Marathon of Hope and tragically died trying. The guy who hosts our knock-off of American Idol is Ben Mulroney, son of a previous Canadian prime minister. Ben's a celebrity here, as part of the only group seemingly granted celebrity status (politicians' kids) if you can call it that. But even though his Posh-and-Becks-style wedding photos graced the cover of one Canadian tabloid, in the supermarket, all I heard in response were a few snickers as people left that magazine on the racks.

No glitz please, we're Canadian

By and large, we distrust politicians with flash, élan. Our leaders are the likes of Stephen Harper and Paul Martin. Sometimes, we resist charisma so strongly that we end up with a party leader like Stéphane Dion, who proved so wooden an egghead, that he couldn't sell much-needed, fairly common-sense environmental policies and all but disappeared off the ballot. Sure, Jean Chrétien had some feisty-little-guy charisma, but Bill Clinton, JFK or Barack Obama he's not. We had Trudeau, but in the end, his eccentric brilliance divided rather than inspired the nation.

We had a hit television show called Danger Bay (about a Vancouver Aquarium marine biologist who happened to solve crimes on the side, usually in his old jeep or motorboat); you have Law & Order, now in its 19th season with spinoffs. We had Degrassi High's very ordinary teens; you 90210's multi-millionaires. We had Due South's Mountie who solved crimes with his wolf-dog, Diefenbaker, you have CSI's glitzy, crime solving empire. You have Hollywood; we have North Vancouver.

We have universal health care, albeit with long waiting lists and deep cracks, but you have uninsured people dying on the streets.

Don't get me wrong, like Disneyland's lights, your glitz has always projected a powerful appeal to me. I devour your media daily with the appetite of a self-confessed addict. I occasionally fantasize about moving there so I can swim in the pop culture that so fascinates me.

But I've always tried to follow Seinfeld's advice about the safest way for a man to check out a woman's breasts in public. Paying attention to America is like looking at the sun, you look then you look away. I'm afraid of what would happen if I lingered too long, or if I moved there.

America through a new lens

For all your appeal, I have assumed there is something incorrigible, something recklessly self-indulgent forever stunting America's potential to live up to its own hype.

So it might seem surprising that I wish to issue an apology. America: last Wednesday, I saw you anew. I stood with other truly, proudly Canadian friends with tears in my eyes, as I applauded your new president. I felt my cynicism and wariness dissolve into hope and euphoria. I saw how individualism and charisma and mass media can really work, and hold an excitement that carefully considered moderation never can. Sure Obama is all about the "we," but that "we" wouldn't be dominating the popular imagination without him inspiring it.

While I'm usually wary of heroes and elitism, I must confess my admiration for the open, out of the closet, practicing intellectualism of your new leader. He has power to make real change, and evinces enough respect for others to do it well. The New York Times's Nicholas Kristof calls Obama's brains the second most remarkable thing about the election, after his history-making colour. "Smart and educated leadership is no panacea, but we've seen recently that the converse -- a White House that scorns expertise and shrugs at nuance -- doesn't get very far either."

It's been an exciting week.

But only a few hours after I turned off the TV, I began to ponder a deeply Canadian conundrum: for generations, we've defined ourselves as anti-American. How would we define ourselves now? In the U.S., people are asking if irony and satire can survive, whether Jon Stewart and Colbert can keep their edge. Canada produces many comedians who make Americans laugh because we have a history of seeing things from the outside, critically, humorously, unbelievingly. What would all of those soon-to-be-unemployed Canadians do? What would our role and identity in this new landscape be?

Let's see how it goes, eh?

And here's where my apology becomes a qualified one. I'm still reading Obama-mania news and opinion pieces voraciously, but already, the rosy glasses are losing their hue. I see Americans on YouTube and the evening news claiming Obama will change everything and instead I'm starting to feel apprehensive about the many, many challenges that lie ahead.

Of course, many Americans, and others, are exercising the same caution. In "Barack to Reality: Obama's victory didn't magically eliminate America's problems and enemies," Christopher Hitchens writes that Americans should be alert to a danger, "which is the cousinhood of euphoria and hysteria. Those who think that they have just voted to legalize Utopia (and I hardly exaggerate when I say this; have you been reading the moist and trusting comments of our commentariat?) are preparing for a disillusionment that I very much doubt they will blame on themselves."

Slate's Anne Applebaum agrees with another British journalist who gives the rest of the world "six months before it unites once again behind the banner of anti-Americanism," and knows foreigners' "condescending euphoria" will turn into "cynicism" soon enough. Still, she wants to hang on to that euphoria as long as she can.

When I hear that, I think, well, we'll see: it looks good, but it's best not to get too excited. It's the Canadian in me. Sorry about that.

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  • Fiat lux

    3 years ago

    Let's not get hysterical

    Let's not get hysterical about the election of Obama. He's a fantastic speaker, but then so was Tony Blair.

    Subject: the real Obama

    http://coat.ncf.ca/articles/Obama.htm

  • Fiat lux

    3 years ago

    Ralph Nader's open letter to

    Ralph Nader's open letter to Obama

    "Change" message a con. See http://www.thetruthseeker.co.uk/article.asp?ID=9628.

  • mopled

    3 years ago

    Another take

    Obama's Foreign Policy: No Sharp Break From Bush
    http://www.globalresearch.ca/index.php?context=va&aid=10907

  • James Burns

    3 years ago

    Apologize!?!

    For what? For telling the truth to power?

    Let's not forget, the US is currently embroiled in two wars, the combination of which have led to the deaths of now probably close to 2 million civilians, including children, through obscene levels of violence; to say nothing of the millions more displaced, living in refugee camps, dying of disease and malnutrition.

    Let's not forget, that US banking institutions are responsible for most of the bad debt that has decimated the world economy. That the top executives of those institutions are currently rewarding themselves with fat bonuses for their incompetence from money they've been given by tax payers to solve the crisis.

    What exactly is it about America that suddenly makes it deserving of respect? The fact they elected a black intellectual to office? No, sorry, but while Obama's election is a small step in the right direction, Americans need to do vastly more to repair the near incalculable harm they've done. We are now well past the time when Americans can simply slap on a fresh coat of paint to revive their "brand". Their own society is rotting from it's elitist core and unless they make deep, substantive, structural change, they will find that they will remain a pariah state.

    All George W. Bush and his crew did was throw back the curtain, so the world could see America's blatant hypocrisy and it's willingness to murder large swaths of civilians to promote it's own economic greed.

    I mean jezus Vanessa, all you done is list a bunch of junk American entertainment, as if that was somehow a look into the soul of the place. How [EDITED. -MODERATOR.] can you miss so much? Does a steady diet of that junk really brainwash people so much? No wonder you want to apologize....

    There is great and wonderful potential in our neighbors to the south. They have done many wonderful things, but the horrors they've visited on the world MUST be dealt with squarely, AND UNapologetically.

  • alda

    3 years ago

    To Vanessa

    Your writing suggests that that you're quite young and, thus, haven't lived long enough to see how the Real Politik game is played, which is this: Obama would NOT have been handed the millions needed to run in the final race for office if he hadn't toadied up to the big, status quo, corporate agenda. Time will tell if this is true, or not.

    In the coming years, you'll learn to ignore the window dressing of campaigns: charisma, looks, sex, religion, race, clever mottos, and rhetoric - no matter how persuasively "intelligent" the speaker sounds. Many so-called smart and well-educated glib politicians come off as well-meaning and articulate, but if you parse their words, you'll find they're actually spewing out optimistic but meaningless drivel.

    What counts, and ONLY counts, are candidates' past records and concretely defined, substantive ideas, words, and facts - all that reveals their true character. (Even then, promises are broken by politicians all the time. Remember "Read my lips?")

    What's the answer? Support independents and third party candidates who owe no one but their little-guy supporters and who have nothing to lose by telling, as someone said here, "truth to (I prefer "about") power."

  • OilbertaRedTory

    3 years ago

    Pro-, Anti-, or Un-

    -American ... or -Obama .

    A meeting between the US Head of State ( President Obama ) and Canada's Head of State ( Gov Gen Michaelle Jean ) should make an interesting photo op.

    Obama's first opportunity to disappoint the non-US world will depend on whether Democrats have learned from Carter's error in not prosecuting Nixon's dogs (including Rumsfield, Cheney, Perle etc ).

    Will Obama try the Bush league ?

    If not for war crimes ...
    http://www.mslaw.edu/MSLMedia/LTV/6.4.pdf

    - at the very least for murder :
    http://www.prosecutionofbush.com/

  • Booker

    3 years ago

    Stop it.

    Sometimes I think that America is just a foil that we use to pump up our own feelings of self worth. I am very aware of the negative aspects of American culture and, especially, of their foreign policy, and, having lived in both countries, I prefer Canada. But we compare ourselves to the U.S. too much. We obsess about them. We look at the bad things and not the good (like the fact that there are many towns and cities in the U.S. that are more progressive than anything you can find in Canada)

    I'm kind of dismayed at the direction Canada is going in. With our Prime Minister and Premiers we have little to feel self-righteous about. If they ever get a national health insurance program in the U.S. I fear that Canadians will have a nervous breakdown trying to figure out what we can feel superior about. Of course, they probably won't get one, so as long as we stop privatizing our own system, we can feel better about ourselves for awhile longer.

  • G West

    3 years ago

    I doubt it

    I think we'll see a little action toward the end of December with Bush 43 extending a few Mark Rich style pardons to his cronies.

    Freed of fear of being prosecuted at least in the USA, Cheney, Rumsfeld and gang will be protected for the duration of their lives - so long as they don't set foot in much of the rest of the world.

    And, ironically, Bush would be doing Obama a big favour by removing from his reach the necessity to act upon his predecessor's criminality.

  • James Burns

    3 years ago

    Ah the old self-righteous ploy

    Americans, especially many ex-Americans, love to label disgust at examples of American excess as self-righteous superiority, particularly in a Canadian context.

    It would appear the notion of American exceptionalism makes it difficult for many, if not most, Americans to emotionally conceive of any criticism as being anything other than unfair. Logically many Americans seem to understand the criticism, but they almost always add this accusation of self-righteousness to act as a denigration of their critics, and as a distraction from dealing with the awareness of their country's horrifying deeds.

    Canada, in progressive terms, is a huge disappointment. But Canada and Canadians certainly don't have a problem with being too self-righteous toward Americans. In fact, I would argue there isn't nearly enough of the kind of criticism most Americans would label as self-righteous. I'd like to see a whole hell of a lot more of it. And maybe, just maybe it would spur more Canadians to actually be a better example.

  • alda

    3 years ago

    to Booker

    I agree with James Burns.

    Critiquing American politics has nothing whatsoever to do with wanting to "pump up Canadians' self worth," it has to do with being dismayed with the fact that we don't have full sovereignty over our own resources and government.

  • shabbaranks

    3 years ago

    Hope and Change

    I think the best evidence that the "Hope" and "Change" mantras espoused by gullible millions was nothing more than clever marketing is the result of the states that rejected same sex rights.

    Americans were presented with a chance to prove how they are genuinely looking for policies that represent hope and change (not the ambiguous, empathetic definition, but the literal, dictionary definition) was turned down flat. I could not believe the irony and ignorance that was demonstrated by voters last Tuesday who broke down one barrier and built another one up. Don't worry, Vanessa, ignorance is still plentiful down South, it just was cool for a little while to act like it wasn't.

  • Cynic

    3 years ago

    Somewhere else I mentioned

    Somewhere else I mentioned that false hope is dangerous. I don't get it. I'm now in my fifties and it's become obvious to me that these elections are farces, marketing campaigns really, that never result in what the people are yearning for ie love and peace. But I have friends in their seventies who are totally sucked in, they think Obama will deliver. Sucked in like the vast majority. It's depressing to see the human race continuing this stupid behaviour. Not to say there aren't hopeful signs of genuine change out there, but definitely not Obama. A lot of people are going to be very disappointed.

  • ME2

    3 years ago

    Yup, but it's really too early to judge.

    Well, I'm more than old enough to be aware of how untrustworthy media hype is, so after reading the postings and the links above, I feel quite sheepish in confessing that I was well and truly taken in by the pro-Obama pre-election hype.

    I find some solace in the fact that I was far from being alone on these pages, and that contrasted to the excesses of the Bush tyranny, ANYBODY would look good. And continuous cynicism IS wearing on the psyche, after all.

    In the end, I suppose, the best we can hope for is that Obama will display the strength of character he is credited with having, and will carefully thumb his nose at those who wish to continue the profiteering they enjoyed under Bush.

    Unless he demonstrates some clear changes in policy directions in the early days of his administration, he will lose support both home and abroad, and the US will resume its slide toward economic collapse
    and political disgrace.

    For now then, it's wait-and-see.

  • Fiat lux

    3 years ago

    All empires of history have

    All empires of history have been built on energy theft from others, licenced by corrupt religious and pseudo religious theories, until their own corruption starts backfiring on them and they self destruct.

    Several within the last century, and this inevitable process of self destruction is well on its way next door

    The problem is that these monsters are also causing the destruction of others both on their way up and down.

    The question is how to prevent our own self destruction, when our own governments are desperately trying to jump on the bandwagon careening uncontrollably down into the abyss?

    Ed Deak.

  • anarcho

    3 years ago

    I wish people would cease

    I wish people would cease calling the Yanks "individualists" They are not. It is one of the most conformist societies you can find in the Western world. If you want to find individualists go to England, France, Spain or Italy. Individualism is neither narcissism or dog eat dogism

  • Fiat lux

    3 years ago

    Anar.... You're correct. The

    Anar.... You're correct. The main point and plan of the present capitalist economic system is the destruction of individualism and the concentration of all economic power in the hands of a few multinationals.

    Why? Because the biggest profits can be stolen from a colonized and enslaved humanity, dependant on the system for survival.

    The family farm is one of the main pillars of individualism, yet governments all over the world have been conspiring to destroy it, forcing everybody into obscene mega city chicken koops.

    Ed Deak.

  • driftwolf

    3 years ago

    Necessary caution

    Ah yes, the post-Obama euphoria. Actually, I was cheering for him as well. Now, of course, I'm going to wait to see what he actually does. Obama is a politician. Therefore, what he says during elections will probably have little to do with what he actually does once in office. So let's wait and see before we sing too many praises. I have to admit there's more hope with him than there was with the newest set of Rove puppets, McCain and Palin.

    As for anti-Americanism, it's ok to dislike plundering pirates who, for the last century, have engineered and actively participated in the overthrow of dozens of governments who wouldn't let American corporations operate as they wished. Imperialists who overthrew democratically elected governments whose people-first policies would have impacted the profits of American corporations. Terrorists who replaced many of these governments with brutal, murderous regimes. Plutocrats who wholeheartedly supported these regimes so long as it was profitable. From the annexation of Hawaii without treaty and the Philippine massacres, through the years of assassinations and coups in Central and South America, to its Iraq invasion, there's a lot to dislike.

    So I for one will wait and see if Obama is any different from the last score of his predecessors before waxing too lyrical on his behalf.

  • G West

    3 years ago

    Another apology

    Seems as if American Jews decided Obama was worth the risk after all.

    http://www.forward.com/articles/14569/

    Take a bow, I guess, Sarah Silverman

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AgHHX9R4Qtk

  • dave49

    3 years ago

    JH Kunstler's view

    In his usual colourful delivery, JH Kunstler said it well in his rudely-titled blog [kunstler.com]:

    The current occupant of the White House, however, has sedulously prepared for his successor the biggest s**t sandwich the world has ever seen, and there is naturally some concern that Mr. Obama might choke on it.

    The night of the election in the USA, I sent out this piece by the CBC's Neil Macdonald [http://www.cbc.ca/world/story/2008/10/30/f-rfa-macdonald.html].

    All that said, the outcome of Obama and Biden winning is FAR preferable to McCain and the very underqualified Palin.

  • ThisCanadian

    3 years ago

    Obama for Canadians?? really? get serious...

    1. Read some Glen Greenwald on how the 'let's wiretap the GLOBE'-AT&T funded the Denver DNC'08:

    "AT&T thanks the Blue Dog Democrats with a lavish party" - Salon

    2. "Wanna Work for Obama? Prepare for a Strip Search" - Mother Jones - MoJo Blog

    Let's get serious.

    Why was Harper's Health Minister in Denver, chatting up Obama?
    Exactly what does Canada look like to Americans?

    A RESOURCE POOL, with a convenient, "The British Are Coming!" knee-jerk reaction to anything that smacks of 'Canadian communist social programs'.

    Obama? Liberal?

    as Liberal as HARPER, perhaps...

    Spread Love, not corporate dependence...

    BlueBerry Pick'n
    can be found @
    ThisCanadian
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