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Lest We (the Young) Forget

A child of the '80s reflects on Remembrance Day.

By Malcolm Johnson, 9 Nov 2007, TheTyee.ca

Bryan Adams in concert (head and shoulders)

Bryan Adams: holiday music.

For those of us raised in the 1980s, the eleventh day of November has been an abstract and rather remote occasion. Despite the fact that my father and grandfathers were military men, my own memories are mostly of poppy sales and mid-morning assemblies in darkened gyms: the uneasy minutes of silence, preceded by the quiet and halting voices of the ensemble readings of John McCrae. To you from failing hands we throw the torch; be yours to hold it high. There were other commemorations, of course; speeches from blue-suited veterans, replete with accounts from the battlefield, and showings of the music video for the Remembrance Day tribute that Bryan Adams recorded in 1987. The assemblies were always solemn moments -- and sometimes even resonant ones -- but they were brief and came to their end, and we'd shuffle out the double doors and stroll outside for another unremarkable lunch-hour of skateboarding and bumming smokes and hassling the staff at the convenience store.

As we graduated and grew into the first stages of adulthood, Remembrance Day faded further from us, relegated to somewhere in the back rooms of our youth. Sure, the day off was nice, but it was a crass occasion for a party, and deadlines and work commitments often seemed to take precedence over attendance at the ceremonies downtown. In my own experience, this year has been typical: I've heard plenty of talk about coffee-shop concerts, film screenings and long-weekend surf trips, but almost none about the occasion itself. It's understandable, perhaps: very few of us have more than cursory contact with the military, and out of hundreds of friends and acquaintances, I can think of exactly four who have served or are currently serving in the Forces. The tech-heavy nature of today's fighting, coupled with Canada's politics and geography, have kept most of us far removed from the realities of war: when we drive to the beach to check the surf we hear the concussions of practice fire far off the Strait, but we think nothing of it and go on about our day.

For myself, though, Remembrance Day is no longer a date that I'm able to easily ignore. The reality of it hit me hardest last year, during a visit to Pier 21 in Halifax; my girlfriend and I were alone in the museum at the end of a cold, sleet-soaked day, and there was something menacing and chillingly real about the images of Canadian servicemen streaming onto ships and sailing off to lose their lives in the Second World War. The casualty counts of the past, when considered today, are almost beyond comprehension: 64,900 Canadian military deaths between 1914 and 1918, and 45,300 between 1939 and 1945. Given today's political climate, however, with our country deeply involved in the continuing mission against the Taliban, Remembrance Day is certainly not an occasion that draws its relevance only from the past. The current situation is as real as it gets -- as of September 25th, 72 Canadians had been killed in action in Afghanistan. The fact that soldiers younger than ourselves are dying isn't a comfortable thing; it doesn't seem quite right that while we talk about sports scores and iTunes playlists, our uniformed countrymen are thousands of kilometers away, bracing themselves against IEDs and mortar fire.

Whatever your political views -- and mine, to be forthright, sheer strongly away from any involvement in imperial war -- it's impossible to deny that the men and women who choose to serve in the Forces are people of remarkable strength and bravery. Those who enlist do so in the full awareness that their lives are likely to be put on the line, and the Canadian Press wires are ample proof of the risks. As a generation, though, we seem strangely adverse to talking about it, other than in vague condemnations of militarism and the policies of George Bush and the Conservative government: in describing a show this summer at the Winnipeg Folk Festival, a good friend of mine was genuinely upset that Corb Lund and the Hurtin' Albertans had played a number of songs about soldiers and war. The children of the '80s are a free and affluent group, and the cruelties and sacrifices of war are generally foreign to us; surely, though, we can spare a day to honour our compatriots, and to give the past and the future some real and critical thought.

As the clouds lower this weekend and the rain falls, I'll be among the quiet crowd making its way to the memorial services in downtown Victoria. It seems like the least I can do.

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  • Stump

    4 years ago

    acronymic confusion

    Quote:
    our uniformed countrymen are thousands of kilometers away, bracing themselves against IUDs and mortar fire.

    I believe you mean IEDs.

    I LOL'ed.

    GOOD CATCH, WE'VE FIXED IT! -- TYEE EDITOR

  • murdock

    4 years ago

    do more, by doing less

    Quote:
    It seems like the least I can do.

    Do not 'support' the use of Rememberance Day to recruit more young men and women into the modern killing machinery of war.

    I have served as a cadet, for five years, as a Reservist, for two years, and a regular forces officer, for nine years. From the time I was 13 until I was 30 I wore a uniform. I can say unequivically that the sombre ceremonies of the past are gone. All that remains are the trappings, everywhere and anytime these 'remember' acts are mentioned, in the same breath they then say "our uniformed countrymen are thousands of kilometers away" dieing or some such thing.

    These people, the ones in the uniforms, will tell you that they are doing what they do from some sense of Higher Purpose, or Duty to their countrymen or fellow soldiers. The last one is the closest to the truth, and the reason why so many will die in large numbers in a short period of time. The 'masters' of the military know this and that is why they are so far away right now, they are there to 'take one on the chin' so that they will then become angry or displeased about their loss and retaliate...making more war.

    This is not the same as those other veterans of WWI or WWII or Korea (despite what anyone else will shout at me), as this Afghanistan conflict is not a UN situation, nor is it a 'defence of humanity'. Indeed I see the continued use of Rememberance Day events as an opportunity to recruit as despicable and a slap in the face to those for whom it should be directed, the veterans.

    I shall do now what my family and I have done for more than a decade, since I left the military, after completion of contracted service. We used to go to Stanley Park and clean the leaves off the Air Force memorial stones, now that we live further away, we will take some other action directed towards those, now forgotten, other memorial places...to remember and not to have the propaganda machine aimed at us.

  • ME2

    4 years ago

    It needed saying,

    So, Well said, Murdock.

  • southdeltawalker

    4 years ago

    Some good books and a bit of trivia

    The Maisie Dobbs series by Jacqueline Winspear presents a good look at life and the devastation in England after the First World War.
    Good mysteries for a rainy weekend.
    Website- http://www.jacquelinewinspear.com/

    Also I recently heard that the boyish appearance and straight dresses with flat chests of flappers in the 20's was an unconsious attempt to replace the young men lost in the First World War!

  • speedo

    4 years ago

    what can I do?

    Perhaps the whole debate on the appropriateness of combat could be avoided by recommending people be more active in their vigilance. Now might be a good time for Canada to step in to help settle down Pakistan so we don't have to endure another debacle like the one next door in Afghanistan. Consider sending a note to our Prime Minister encouraging him to offer Canada's diplomatic assistance.

  • Jim DeLaHunt

    4 years ago

    Typo in HTML tag

    Editors:

    It looks like there's a typo in an HTML tag in this article.

    Where it says:
    ... hold it high.,/em>

    the /em tag should start with "<" not ",":
    ... hold it high.</em>

    The result of the typo is that the bottom 80% of the article, and all the comments, are in emphasised (italic) type instead of regular.

  • zalm

    4 years ago

    Indeed

    To remember is to work for peace.

    http://www.peace.ca/whitepoppies.htm

  • Booker

    4 years ago

    from 90 years ago

    Wilfred Owen:

    Quote:
    If in some smothering dreams you too could pace
    Behind the wagon that we flung him in,
    And watch the white eyes writhing in his face,
    His hanging face, like a devil's sick of sin;
    If you could hear, at every jolt, the blood
    Come gargling from the froth-corrupted lungs,
    Of vile, incurable sores on innocent tongues,
    My friend, you would not tell with such high zest for some desperate glory,
    The old Lie; Dulce et Decorum est
    Pro patria mori

  • Fiat lux

    4 years ago

    If people, and especially

    If people, and especially the families of the fallen could see the disgusting spectacle of how their beloved have lost their lives and/or spend a few days in a MASH hospital, they would scratch the eyes out of every politician praising and advocating war.

    Ed Deak (WW2 vet on the wrong side)

  • G West

    4 years ago

    Thanks Ed

    In war I'm not convinced there is a 'right' side.

    Somewhere I have a poem about this poppy nonsense that seems to put the whole bloody, patriotic, mind-numbing business into a better perspective. I'll see if I can dig it up.

  • 42 12

    4 years ago

    Rememberance Day

    Burnt Offerings

    Today I won't turn on the radio
    I don't want to hear anymore
    How young men are sacrificed
    In the interest of empires
    And for the pecuniary desires of a few
    I'm sorry they had to go to war
    But I can't help but feeling that this day
    Should be a mourning day
    Not for celebrating victories
    These men did what they had to do
    And I mean them no disrespect
    But how much longer can we cling
    To the myth of freedom gained
    And see the maimed and dead
    For what they were
    And continue to be
    Burnt offerings

  • 42 12

    4 years ago

    Another poem not mine

    Lest We Forget - F.R.Scott

    The British troops at the Dardanelles
    Were blown to bits by British shells
    Sold to the Turks by Vickers
    And many a brave Canadian youth
    Will shed his blood on foreign shores, And die for Democracy, Freedom, Truth,
    With his body full of Canadian ores,
    Canadian nickel, lead, and scrap,
    Sold to German, sold to Jap,
    With Capital watching its tickers.

  • Dennis J

    4 years ago

    Lest We(The Young) Forget

    I am from another generation and I am vet. Not all wars are worth remembering. Rather remember those who fought the war(s). Most important, remember the wounded. Though they survived, their remembrance is every day. Want to do something for yourself on Remembrance Day, visit a wounded vet in a hospital. Look into his/her eyes. Listen to them and remember that. When the war becomes a footnote in history, the vet is living history - listen, remember and reflect.

  • G West

    4 years ago

    Found it: REASONS FOR REFUSAL by MARTIN BELL (1918-1

    Reasons for Refusal

    Busy old lady, charitable tray
    Of social emblems:poppies, people’s blood-
    I must refuse, make you flush pink
    Perplexed by abrupt No-thank-you.
    Yearly I keep up this small priggishness,
    Would wince worse if I wore one.
    Make me feel better, fetch a white feather, do.

    Everyone has list of dead in war,
    Regrets most of them, e.g.

    Uncle Cyril; small boy in lace and velvet
    With pushing sisters muscling all around him,
    And lofty brothers, whiskers and stiff collars;
    The youngest was the one who copped it.
    My mother showed him to me,
    Neat letters high up on the cenotaph
    That wedding-caked it up above the park,
    And shadowed birds on Isaac Watts’ white shoulders.

    And father’s friends, like Sandy Vincent;
    Brushed sandy hair, moustache, and staring eyes.
    Kitchener claimed him, but the Southern Railway
    Held back my father, made him guilty.
    I hated the khaki photograph,
    It left a patch on the wallpaper after I took it down.

    Others I knew stick in the mind,
    And Tony Lister often –
    Eyes like holes in foolscap, suffered from piles,
    Day after day went sick with constipation
    Until they told him he could drive a truck
    Blown up with Second Troop in Greece:
    We sang all night once when we were on guard.

    And Ken Gee, our lance-corporal, Christian Scientist –
    Everyone liked him, knew that he was good –
    Had leg and arm blown off, then died.
    Not all were good. Gross Corporal Rowlandson
    Fell in the canal, the corrupt Sweet-water,
    And rolled there like a log, drunk and drowned.
    And I’ve always been glad of the death of Dick Benjamin,
    A foxy urgent dainty ballroom dancer –
    Found a new role in military necessity
    As R.S.M. He waltzed out on parade
    To make himself hated. Really hated, not an act.
    He was a proper little porcelain sergeant-major –
    The earliest bomb made smithereens:
    Coincidence only, several have assured me.

    In the school hall was pretty glass
    Where prissy light shone through St George
    The highest holiest manhood, he!
    And underneath were slain Old Boys
    In tasteful lettering on whited slab –
    And, each November, Ferdy the Headmaster
    Reared himself squat and rolled his eyeballs upward,
    Rolled the whole roll-call off an oily tongue,
    Remorselessly from A to Z.

    Of all the squirmers, Roger Frampton’s lips
    Most elegantly curled, showed most disgust.
    He was a pattern of accomplishments,
    And joined the Party first, and left it first,
    At OCTU won a prize belt, most improbable,
    Was desert-killed in ’40, much too soon.

    His name should burn right through that monument.

    No poppy, thank you.

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