Couchsurfing 101
Exploring the social capital of the world's living room furniture.
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I had been in Indonesia for almost a year and had managed to avoid it. The "it" in question is Bali. To tourists it's a paradise: beautiful beaches, exciting nightlife, great food and friendly people. It's said to be the ultimate weekend getaway in indulgence. I, however, wanted to see for myself exactly what to make of Southeast Asia's most famous island.
Nothing could have prepared me.
It was, compared to what I had seen of that beautiful country, a western fantasy camp gone horribly, horribly wrong. Everything was manufactured to support tourism. People struggling to support themselves selling massages, tours, friendship and sex. Towns paved over with Internet cafes, surfing shops, tacky art and pizza restaurants. There were made-for-tourist parades, statues, streets and museums. And legions of vacationers from the US, Australia, the UK and Canada consuming it all.
Consumption is a major problem associated with tourism and travelers are starting to seek salves for their guilt. Both the United Nations and scholars like Katrina Brown argue that the sudden flow of thousands of people into areas like Cancun, Cairo, or even Salt Spring Island can push the environment and infrastructures of these areas to ten times their normal limits. Water, electricity, space for social housing and sewage systems can all come under severe strain. And when systems are overrun, it is usually the locals who are the first to their services reduced.
Surf on
Even worse, in order to increase tourist revenues, governments and local communities will often turn to commodifying culture. In Bali, this was so apparent, that after a day, I immediately got on a bus, got to a ferry and got off the island. Almost everything on the island seemed to be catering to tourist dollars: Hindu temples being used to conduct 20 minute tours instead of prayer; "traditional" parades in the main town every 20 minutes, a nightclub and drug culture thriving on Kuta Beach, half-nude men and women with no concept of Indonesian dress etiquette and a total gap in living standards between locals and travelers.
It's a problem that plagues many major tourist areas and it creates a dilemma. So how could I visit and learn about other parts of the world, but do so in a way that is ethical? Well, my most recent attempt at a solution is couch surfing. It sounds too good to be true: a free way to access somebody's couch/floor/extra bed anywhere in the world.
It is true. And it's already popular. Hospitality Club has been around since 2001 and has over 100,000 members. And couchsurfing.com has just surpassed the 65,000 member mark with over 190 countries represented, even Afghanistan and Antarctica. Both are NGOs.
Return on investment
Couchsurfers like me like that we don't have to pay for accommodation. But more than that, we benefit from experiencing a culture from within. When I'm couchsurfing, I'm usually staying somewhere central, so the strain on resources is less. And if the water or electricity goes out, I have to deal with that just like the locals. In Northern Sweden, sub-zero temperatures and frozen pipes meant I had to break out the blankets and boil water. In Istanbul, closed roads and bad city planning forced me to stay indoors for a day or two and wander around the burbs.
I get the real thing. And the local economy still benefits. Victor Alieixo, doing his PhD in eco-tourism in Massachusetts, is a member of the couchsurfing eco-tourism group and promotes sustainable tourism with an emphasis on helping the local economy. With his model, countries still get the benefit of foreign capital, except that the dollars which originally would have been put into hotels, kitsch and pizza, can be put into the local restaurants, local art, local transport or your host.
I like all of that. And the final benefit for me is that I've made relationships with my hosts. Robert Putnam argues in his book Democracies in Flux that trust in others is an important factor in our health, our safety and even our democracies. Our "social capital," as Putnam calls it, and our communication with each other is steadily going down. We meet each other less, have dinner together less, volunteer together less, trust each other less. In the current political environment of East versus West, North versus South, a few open doors go a long way to promote cultural understanding.
Not all my experiences couchsurfing have been great (the couch that was a foot too small for me and the host that stood me up in the middle of Sweden immediately come to mind). Last time I was in Indonesia, couchsurfing wasn't around. But as of today, Bali has 7 surfers available to share their couch.
Enid Godtree is a freelance journalist, who dabbles in academia, activism and (ethical) traveling. ![]()




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castilleja
5 years ago
Comments on "Couchsurfing 101"
Could you please clarify why not paying for accommodation is a way of salving your guilt about the poverty you see in places you travel? Am I totally off in thinking that tourist dollars (for things like a hotel or hostel, restaurants, etc.) might be good for the local economy and actually help the poverty-stricken people that make you feel so uncomfortable?
Or maybe I am completely wrong.. the locals don't benefit as much from your tourist dollar as they do about knowing that you will see a true, genuine part of their culture. Maybe that's satisfaction enough.
I think couchsurfing while travelling is a great idea... just don't propose it as a way of 'salving guilt' about the poverty you see in other places. Just because you had to boil your own water while traveling, doesn't mean that you're any more (or less) of an ethical traveler.
lynn
5 years ago
sorry but terms like eco-tourism and ethical travelling just get under my skin...you're not fooling anyone...it all starts out so innocently self-righteous...I live in an inlet that fills up with eco-tourists that now travel in large packs...drive their SUV's down dirt roads at warp speed on their way to their wilderness adventure...and then return the favour on their way back from same wilderness adventure...and there seems a growing inability and desire to actually take a kayak out alone...it's mostly in the form of jammed-tight flotillas now...geez...I guess I'm just a touch resentful...ya think?
rrose
5 years ago
I feel compelled to respond to your well meaning but perhaps short sighted article. I admire the spirit of your pursuit, mindful exploration of cultures and authentic engagement with others is a noble cause and I was happy to hear a voice calling for this. I know that you represent one person in a growing movement of travelers who rejects tourism that preys on the vulnerabilities of cultures and the comodification of people and places that is unfortunately still so highly regarded in the Western world. Perhaps where I begin to diverge from your philosophy is that I am not so certain that the actual outcome of “couch surfing†is really any different than staying at a resort and purchasing cheap souvenirs. The ways in which they harm are just different. The intention of those travelers whom you refer to as being the unfortunate norm is to experience something new and exciting which is why they fall subject to the quick fixes of the pleasures of home abroad and objects that signify their travels to be shared with their loved ones once they come home. In the end is the “couch surfer†really all that different? This is not simply an issue of strain on local infrastructures and the encouragement of negative economic pillars but one of cultural capital and the negligence of travelers in seemingly blissful cultural exchanges. I know that perhaps you feel as though you are returning home with a more authentic experience and connection with a culture or community but in the end that right is only reserved to residents and people from within that culture and even then this right is often only reserved for those who were born and have lived a lifetime in one place. I am tired of hearing people wearing their “truly unique†travel experiences as badges of honour to be respected and ultimately to contribute to your understanding of their identity as exclusive and conscious. Whether it is crossing the border in Iraq, being invited on a boat trip up the Nile or living with an indigenous community these experiences and the richness that they hold can be lost if it is done so simply for the pursuit of the experience. What is so difficult is that the intricacies of culture, community and the presence of outsides within them is a highly contentious issue and one that deserves a greater response than to say “been there, done that, I can wipe my conscious clean now because I didn’t abuse the local culture.†I challenge you to think of the people in the communities and the genuine real connections you made with people (which I assume you did because of your keen interest in finding authenticity.) What did you leave with those people and what did you take with you? If it is a just a great story about boiling water abroad which draws a distinct contrast between the worlds depravities compared to your own than you have dishonoured this connection. I am sorry to single you out, I realize I am functioning on the basis of many assumptions but the issue of cultural comodification in the travelers identity is one to important to be ignored. I don’t think there is a clear answer as to how to travel and honour your experiences but it is one that deserves more discourse.
Moat
5 years ago
I think that the first three posters (castilleja, lynn, and rrose) are being a little harsh on Ms. Godtree here. However, Rrose does admit to making assumptions, and freely invites further discussion.
I disagree strongly with the attitude that…
I have never “couch surfedâ€, but I can am certain that “couch surfers†are not drastically changing the character of the neighborhoods that they are visiting. Couch surfers I am certain do not demand extra security and services in the neighborhoods that you are staying.
rrose wrote:
We are now a “global cityâ€. I am starting to dislike the term global village, but the concept is still the same. Our cultures are rapidly blending. Think of you own neighbourhood…. what do you want to eat tonight, what do you want to watch? You can get anything from almost any culture? Want to connect with another culture? Get on an internet discussion group.
However, those who are able to travel as tourists throughout the world are a different “class†of people. Entry in this class is defined by networth in US dollars (no matter what the local currency is). I think the only idea that bothers you three is the economic disparity between the tourist and the local. Are you advising the author not to travel? Or our you advising that she has to travel with a peace-corps mentality?
Criticizing the pursuit of experience is crazy exercise… as we will live in constant guilt if we do it. Go out for dinner and beers as a cost of $50, then go watch the “Fog of War†for another $10…. Could you have used that money to make the world a better place for others? You bet… but you wanted the experience.
Bottom line…. it is almost IMPOSSIBLE to be truly be an ethical traveler. Unless you are planning to walk or hitchhike your way around the world, you are going to have to consume resources or vast amounts of wealth to get around.
lynn
5 years ago
An excellent piece, rrose, from an interesting and different perspective. I agree there is not really a clear answer.
Nothing against the experience of travel itself but the eco and ethical terminology despite often good intentions ...is frankly delusional. eg. if you fly to your destination...it's not eco-tourism....no matter how you wish it to be so...planes take massive amounts of fuel.
Tourism is not an experience but an industry... whatever the promotional label says. It is the marketing of travel, which now includes the marketing of eco-tourism....eco-sell. Like most markets they begin small..but always hold the potential to mutate into something quite different...something that no longer bears any resemblance to the ideals of their more humble beginnings.
It's much more complex...I don't think travel is quite deserving of the labels "ethical" or "eco" yet despite the sincerity of some people's aspirations of trying to move it in that direction...and it comes off as prematurely self-congratulatory....and well.. false.
Addressing alternative energy sources in order that we can all travel more lightly on the earth would be a first consideration...by merely calling or naming a travel experience an environmental one does not necessarily make it so...especially if government monitoring and regulations have not been put in place to assure that companies are indeed what they promote.... or what they pretend to be.
la_bandolina
5 years ago
couchsurfing.com
sign up.
Use some thought in creating your profile.
have some people stay at your house.
then start talking.
Questions, on the other hand....
rRose. what do you do? Much as I feel oppressed by your pejorative treatise, I am intrigued by what you are doing. It may be because I like people who use the pejorative because it makes me feel right at home.
I'm willing to go there.
As for couch surfing. I believe it has brought some tremendous benefit to my life, to act as a host. And I will definitely try it when I choose to visit some neighbouring communities. heck, I might even use it in town if I have to leave my apartment.
Moat
5 years ago
lynn,
I totally, but respectfully, disagree with you here.
The marketing and the reconciliation of preconceived ideas are part of the "experience". For example, some hikers view the "Grouse Grind" or a camping trip to Cultus Lake as a "wilderness experience". Other's view the west coast trail as a wilderness experience. That is what (rightly or wrongly) feel is a wilderness experience.
Others need to go on an expedition with food drops to have a "wilderness experience".
As for environmentally friendly travel.... it is impossible, unless you are completely self-propelled.
As for "couch surfing", not really into it, but I think it is more "eco" friendly than many forms of accomodation.
As for defining "eco" tourism, let's debate that when an article comes up in the next little while.
Alcibiades
5 years ago
There is a serious question about the difference between tourism and travel.
Tourism is, as it always has been, an attempt to experience the exotic without leaving the comfort of the familiar.
Travel, in the sense that it was something different from tourism, is at best an attempt to escape or distance the individual from the familiar. For the middle class, who hardly existed prior to the 20th century, travel as a phenomenon began at the end of the First World War. The desire of a whole generation to get away from the mud of France, either by returning home or by finding some ‘other’ place of escape was the initial idea behind the excursions we now take so much for granted. Far from hoping to find a reproduction of ‘home’ in exotic destinations, the travellers of the years between the wars seem to have been much more open to the possibility that foreign locales might really be a lot ‘better’ and certainly different from the nightmares of the trenches they were trying to leave behind.
Those with enough funds to do this have always been able to travel; those who lack the funds do their travelling through books, and, increasingly film and television.
The quality of the experience, whether real or virtual, varies with the effort put into it and the degree of naïveté one has at the beginning of the exercise.
The most depressing thing about Godtree's essay is the realization that it will not be long before all travel has become, in fact, tourism.
In the Arabian kingdom of Dubai or Bahrain, (I can't remember which ), I understand it is now possible to ski indoors year round on manufactured snow. As everything turns into a commercial experience the whole world becomes nothing more than a supermarket through which deracinated souls wander beneath fluorescent lights with foolish grins on their faces.
lynn
5 years ago
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ooooo... so well said...that's one of the real dangers....and what a loss for all.
lynn
5 years ago
Sorry, Moat, for some reason I did not see your post above. No doubt there are different levels and varieties of experience whatever those experiences be...I just find the labelling of travel through the tourism industry as ethical and eco to be highly premature and self-congratulatory ...and yes, delusional. Okay, I'm repeating myself. ;-)
ahhhhh...so true, sing the birds, whales and sun-burnished butterflies.
The rest of nature in its delightful simplicity... so unbusiness-like.... so way ahead of "enlightened man" as usual.
Moat
5 years ago
lynn wrote,
Exactly. Maybe this piece belongs in the ethical hedonist series.
My point is that "couch surfing" is probably more "eco-friendly" than staying in accomodations built for tourists, and it does allow for at least some connection to the local communities. But let's face it, most people in their early 20s are out for the "world party".
It aint for me, but then again, I am in my early 30s now, so maybe we are getting a little "tut-tut"-ish.
ohsweetie
5 years ago
i think that my major draw to couchsurfing has been overlooked. its so easy to get tied up in the "eco-friendliness" of travelling. touring. eating. shopping. reading. breathing. drinking. etc. but, being someone in my "early 20s" who is not out there for the "world party" (if we can all be typecast like that) couchsurfing is the best! i mean, FREE PLACES TO STAY! am i the last person on earth that loves cheap? free?
and, i feel that its quite fulfilling to host random strangers in your home, for a day or so, perhaps a week, so they can come see your area that's way out in the middle of nowhere. you can bake them up some yam fries, and MAKE NEW FRIENDS!! xoxo.
BobbyPeru
5 years ago
What a pretentious and childish article.
To think a couchsurfer is more eco friendly than a tourist shows an utter lack of realistic analysis. Certainly the most polluting part of travel is flying, which I assume the couchsurfer must do in the same plane as the tourist- luxury or otherwise. Just because you can't afford a good hotel and you eat cup noodles each day doesn't make you any morally better. Your hypocrisy will be evident the day you stay in a hotel.
The tourist creates and supports many jobs by staying at a resort and spending around town. By raising the standard of living, countries can afford to pollute less. Lower standards of living result in more pollution.
And this potemkin village the couchsurfer talks about where there is no commoditization of culture....you mean he finds it more realistic and quaint to observe people in noble poverty than to see them making money by flogging their culture to tourists?
kootowl
5 years ago
bobby peru,
What's the big problem? I doubt couchsurfing is going to put an end to more conventional forms of travel and tourism, but it is nice to know that there are other ways to be in a foreign culture. The issue of how eco-friendly international travel is...is another topic, but I'd agree it's ripe for the plucking.
The Khaosan Road contingent will continue to provide employment for thousands of Bangkok workers, but wouldn't many of us prefer to stay in a quieter locale, away from the 24 hour parties in the backpacker ghettoes? Or the KFC's, Pizza Huts, and McDonalds of the hotel districts. Leave those enclaves for travellers who can't stand anything foreign. Couch surfing doesn't seem to rely as heavily on corporate culture trickle down as standard tourism. Supporting local businesses and local culture, if it's possible, makes sense.
anecdote:
I once had the pleasure of running into an amiable Australian fellow in Phnom Penh who had a ticket that would take him from Hong Kong to Vancouver. He had to take a bus to Calgary to catch the next leg of the flight to London, where his partner was waiting. I offered him two nights at my home in the interior, house-sitters willing. A phone call home two weeks later revealed that buddy had braved the local ski hill. It was the second snow experience of his life. He had a great time, the house-sitters loved him, and the ski hill and local grocery store did all right by him, too. It's not about the destination; it's about the journey ;-)
Moat
5 years ago
BobbyPeru spat...
I am not really defending couch surfing, but I think your critique is a little off. The toursit stay at the resort causes less pollution and raises living standards? You are joking right?
Hmmmmm, those resort golf courses in arid environments don't require tons of water? Air conditioning in massive hotels? Pools? Where is your analysis?
Yeah, we North American's with our high standards of living are role models for the rest of the world to follow.... (note sacrasm, please).
I will admit to being a fossil fuel burning hypocrite, and I am not going to deny the fact that I pollute - probably more than I should.
And I am not going to link couch-surfing with greenhouse gas emissions. Any form of travel is linked with greenhouse gas emissions. And no, I am not a "couch surfer". But I do like a cheap hotel.
nestingtree
5 years ago
Come on, admit it- you are 20 something and relatively broke, looking for a good cheap deal. You are still young enough to sleep on a floor.
Nothing new here, except some trendy labels, the internet, and some twisted warp of reality to give you some superiority.
Whatever happened to camping? If you can camp in Africa (I have), you can camp anywhere. And staying with friends or friends of friends? Or stayed in a hostel?
And let me guess- did you hitchhike and call it eco-carpooling? Use a bike and call it eco-spinning?
Ugh.